I’m going to play that fun classic game but I’m going to use just fictional characters. Also, because I am a straight woman I’ll be using only male characters, so I apologize for that!
The Hunger Games–Gale, Peeta, Finnick
Marry Finnick, Kiss Peeta, avoid Gale. Sorry not sorry haha.
Twilight–Edward, Jacob, Jasper
Marry Edward, kiss Jacob, avoid Jasper because he fought for the wrong side in the civil war lol.
Harry Potter–Harry, Ron, Draco
Don’t judge me for this but marry Draco (he deserves redemption), kiss Ron, avoid Harry because he’s kind of a brat and let the chosen one thing go to his head

The Lunar Chronicles–Kai, Wolf, Thorne
Not even including Jacin because I hate him. I would 100% marry Thorne–I love him so much. The other two is hard because I like them both, but if I had to pick I’d kiss Kai and avoid Wolf.
To All the Boys I’ve Loved Before–Peter, Josh, John Ambrose
I almost feel like this is a no-brainer. Marry Peter, he’s sweet. Kiss John Ambrose, he’s also sweet. Avoid Josh, he has not much of an interesting personality.
ACOTAR–Rhysand, Azriel, Cassian
I’m not even bothering with Tamlin and Lucien. Marry Cassian–he’s my favorite for the banter. Kiss Rhysand. Avoid Azriel, if only because he can be a bit scary.
Shadow and Bone–Mal, the Darkling, Nikolai
Again, this should be a no-brainer, but I’m afraid what some people would say. I’d marry Nikolai, because who wouldn’t? I’d kiss Mal, because though he’s irritating at times he has a good heart. I’d avoid the Darkling because he’s literally evil.
Six of Crows–Kaz, Jesper, Matthias
Now this is a hard one. I’d marry Jesper–I love his banter and how flirty he is. I’d kiss Kaz, if he’d let me. I’d avoid Matthias, solely because he’s very judgmental of people.